Our shared values include speaking respectfully, avoiding language that others may experience as hurtful, racially charged, insensitive, or offensive. Participating in our community activities, as Billy and Billy Kin, we strive to be kind and respectful towards each other.
This includes people of different races, ethnicities, ages, sexual orientations, gender identities, and health statuses, ; trans men, ; and those of varying life experiences. We listen, learn, and are open to adjusting our behavior when our words or actions cause discomfort or harm. The bills encourage safe, consensual sexual activity.
- I will be kind and respectful of the range of folks attending, including all races, ethnicities, genders, identities and expressions, pronouns, ages, abilities, and sexual orientations.
- I commit to supporting a safe gathering space for everyone, including supporting diversity, respecting that we are drug and alcohol-free space (except for prescribed medical reasons), following the policy on photos, and bring fragrance-free personal care products.
- I support physical intimacy that is mutually agreed-upon and safe, be it sexual or otherwise. Participation in any activity must be by consent only. There should never be a situation in which I or others feel pressured to engage or continue beyond comfort levels.
- It is my responsibility to communicate my boundaries clearly. When initiating or receiving contact, I will also respect the personal boundaries of others.
- If I feel pressure in any activity, I am encouraged to talk to an emotional support volunteer, the Gathering coordinator, or a Billy I trust.
I agree that there is no room for racism, transphobia, biphobia, body shaming, ageism, or other hurtful behavior at Billy gatherings, and I understand that the event welcomes people from diverse backgrounds, including spiritual and non-spiritual backgrounds.